tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7182897612214178711.post1017123871217181182..comments2016-03-01T19:35:50.049-05:00Comments on The prolific family of us : Rambo MomsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13278173727019211103noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7182897612214178711.post-18765167167273296542013-08-22T15:27:17.730-04:002013-08-22T15:27:17.730-04:00I find the politics of parenting so strange. I ha...I find the politics of parenting so strange. I have two surviving triplets and feel like people assume that I know better how to take care of them than my husband, even though we are both first-time parents. Even my husband assumes that! He defers to my judgment regarding the babies, although there is no other arena in our marriage in which we have unequal say on an important issue. I really don't know why people feel this way. Having been pregnant did not somehow make me a parenting expert. I hope someday I WILL feel like a parenting expert, but if I do, it will be due to spending tons of time with my babies, not because I'm a woman.<br /><br />Anyway, you keep on doing what you are doing...I promise you there are women (like me) who look at you and think you must really know what you are doing!Kaseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17536828028145669965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7182897612214178711.post-35106359525934071952013-08-21T22:24:09.489-04:002013-08-21T22:24:09.489-04:00I think that no matter if your male or female rais...I think that no matter if your male or female raising children is a wonderful thing and a huge blessing!! Who cares what they think, I have 4 children close in age as well, two of them being multiples and I get the bless your heart you have your hands full, or the omg you need a drink , which I don't find nice at all, they obviously don't know how annoying they sound instead of supportive, also being gay shouldn't define how people should judge others parenting , there is so many heterosexual couples that don't parent as well as gay dads or lesbian moms would, don't let them get to you, I know it's so hard and trust me there's times I have been at tested to the point where I respond with things like "better me than you" or "at least I will have someone that will love me when I'm old" lol I try for them not to get to me even if I fail at that at times, I think you have a beautiful family and your children are obviously happy which says a lot not only about parenting skills but also about the love they receive at home from their daddy's :) keep your head up and I enjoy reading your blog :) keep posting !! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05522780714749315970noreply@blogger.com